No, not at all, not just an issue of training, in my opinion. I do think that it is an issue of hiring individuals that bring certain strengths to the team and some of our skills can be taught to all team members. For example, providing excellent customer care can be a trainable skill (some people just need to be shown how to recognize the opportunity to help another, ex., asking every resident how things are in their apartment when you see them.)
I am not a "social butterfly" because I am a bit introverted. However, I have learned that I cannot, must not and will not hide at a computer all day. I have learned how to talk to Residents and am naturally friendly and interested in what others have to say. However, I will HIRE an Assistant Manager, Leasing Professional, and/or Administrative Assistant who is comfortable shopping for parties, move in gifts, throwing parties and planning. Observing how well they pull off an event, and seeing how happy the Residents are participating gives me the ability to learn how to do what they are doing. I train myself, so to speak, by imitating their skillset.
I absolutely agree that a one-person office should not be expected to do everything, and those resident events will be the first to fall off the to-do list if they expected to churn it out with no help. On the other hand, if the property is super large, then even a couple of people may find it difficult to direct an engaging resident event. That is when I think property managers and companies should consider hiring either a vendor or planner to engage residents on their behalf. Too often, far too often, all an onsite team is told is to fill the boxes and give two events a year, a holiday party and a summer party at the pool. The emphasis, to me, then, is to just "get by" and "get it over with" because they budgeted two activities.
Making your property into a community, to me, is a mindset you have to embrace first of all. As a manager, I think, you need to understand that pyschology behind the concept and if you lack the skills, you have to find someone who can help implement your ideas. Every team has that one person who says on paydays, "Who's up for a beer at Joe's Bar after work?" Once you hear the "invitation" you decide whether or not the activity is what you want to do. I don't think it's much different with Residents. Once the idea is presented, they'll decide if they want to go. I have posted notices (could be done on facebook, twitter) that it's $5 movie night at the theatre - who wants to see such and such movie? Usually there are seven to ten people who want to go. Great - meet me in the parking lot at 6:30 and we'll go! In this aspect, I do think social engagement is a learned skill.