I have a resident upstairs complaining about resident downstairs burning incense. Resident downstairs is saying it is for religious purposes.

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3 years 10 months ago #45035 by Monica Fincham
Question- I have a resident upstairs complaining about resident downstairs burning incense. Resident downstairs is saying it is for religious purposes. Hmmm she has never said that before until we sent this most recent 21-30. Opinions?? Resident upstairs has never complained before.
3 years 10 months ago #45035 by Monica Fincham
Les Moore
3 years 10 months ago #45036 by Les Moore
3 years 10 months ago #45036 by Les Moore
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3 years 10 months ago #45037 by Monica Fincham
3 years 10 months ago #45037 by Monica Fincham
Les Moore
3 years 10 months ago #45038 by Les Moore
I’m not really sure why anyone would send a violation for incense burning. Do you send them for strong air fresheners or candles? See where I’m going with that. Also, doesn’t matter whether you believe the reasoning or not.
3 years 10 months ago #45038 by Les Moore
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3 years 10 months ago #45039 by Monica Fincham
I typically would not, but the incense is getting into the unit upstairs, from the bathroom vent causing a disturbance to the neighbor above.
3 years 10 months ago #45039 by Monica Fincham
Les Moore
3 years 10 months ago #45040 by Les Moore
Send it to legal if you have a legal dept. If not, put that on your regional.
3 years 10 months ago #45040 by Les Moore
Anthony McCullough
3 years 10 months ago #45041 by Anthony McCullough
If it’s a smoke free property it’s a smoke free property that should include candles, incense or anything else that emits smoke if burned
3 years 10 months ago #45041 by Anthony McCullough
Jennifer Campbell Triptow
3 years 10 months ago #45042 by Jennifer Campbell Triptow
Since when does a smoke free clause include candles or incense? That’s utterly ridiculous. Not saying it’s not the case in some locales, I’m simply saying it’s utterly ridiculous.
3 years 10 months ago #45042 by Jennifer Campbell Triptow
Anthony McCullough
3 years 10 months ago #45043 by Anthony McCullough
Ours does. Every resident signs it in our lease when they move in. Smoke is smoke. They can’t have tart warmers but nothing that emits smoke
If nothing else forget the smoke aspect of it, it eliminates a hell of a lot of fire hazards If people aren’t leaving candles burn unattended
3 years 10 months ago #45043 by Anthony McCullough
Jennifer Campbell Triptow
3 years 10 months ago #45044 by Jennifer Campbell Triptow
I don’t disagree about the fire hazard, for sure, but that would be a separate clause. I just googled to see how common this is and even HUD documentation states smoking is to refer to tobacco products including pipes, cigars, cigarettes, and specifically did not include incense/candles. But I also know that every lease in every locale could be very different.
3 years 10 months ago #45044 by Jennifer Campbell Triptow
Susan Burgard
3 years 10 months ago #45045 by Susan Burgard
I know that personally, I have issues if I’m in our house when incense is burning and start coughing excessively. I agree with checking with legal, since I would think if one tenant has health issues with it, that could possibly trump the other tenants religious reasons.
3 years 10 months ago #45045 by Susan Burgard
Tina Tutah
3 years 10 months ago #45046 by Tina Tutah
You can have guys go through and foam up holes in plumbing and so forth but the downstairs also needs to know that it doesn’t matter the reason. This is shared living and a private company. However with cooking smells- it’s a battle and we do make this causing the smells get an odor machine or something that grabs it
3 years 10 months ago #45046 by Tina Tutah
Brooks Miller
3 years 10 months ago #45047 by Brooks Miller
Religious or not, you can not affect the happiness of other residents.
3 years 10 months ago #45047 by Brooks Miller
Lee Tifani
3 years 10 months ago #45048 by Lee Tifani
It doesn’t really matter if *you* believe it’s for religious purposes or not. Does your lease explicitly state incense aren’t allowed?
3 years 10 months ago #45048 by Lee Tifani
Sherri Page
3 years 10 months ago #45049 by Sherri Page
Incense and candles are not "smoking"
Cigarettes, cigars, and joints are smoking
3 years 10 months ago #45049 by Sherri Page
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3 years 10 months ago #45050 by Monica Fincham
The smoking clause just covers actual smoking... no where in the lease does it cover this situation. The only thing I have to go on is - The tenant shall conduct themselves and require other persons on the premises with his consent whether known by the tenant or not to conduct themselves in a manner that will not disturb his neighbors peaceful enjoyment of the premises.
3 years 10 months ago #45050 by Monica Fincham
Lee Tifani
3 years 10 months ago #45052 by Lee Tifani
Tell the neighbor who is “disturbed” that the other person is not doing anything wrong.
Some people are “disturbed” by the faint sound of children playing in the yard. Doesn’t mean you have to reprimand the children playing. If you know what I mean
3 years 10 months ago #45052 by Lee Tifani
Rhonda Myers Bryant
3 years 10 months ago - 3 years 10 months ago #45053 by Rhonda Myers Bryant
Maybe they could agree on a scent that both can tolerate. Would the neighbor be willing to try a different scent of incense?
Also air is traveling through interior walls where there is not insulation. Seal around escutcheons, behind the dishwasher, the fan in the bathroom etc. It becomes an issue when the complaining resident has their air or heat running and the other resident does not (it pulls air from the other unit). Concentrate on the areas where the person smells it the most. Likely the kitchen with all the plumbing knock outs.
3 years 10 months ago - 3 years 10 months ago #45053 by Rhonda Myers Bryant
Aaron Potier
3 years 10 months ago #45054 by Aaron Potier
Let me ask you this. Curry is the most annoying seasoning that anyone can cook with. It permeates the walls and leaks out into the breezeways. If someone cooks with curry and you get a complaint, how would you handle that? Treat this the same way
3 years 10 months ago #45054 by Aaron Potier
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3 years 10 months ago #45055 by Monica Fincham
We have been. I just wanted to see opinions and hear experiences bc the complaints don't stop. I have residents that cook with curry and neighbors have no issues.
3 years 10 months ago #45055 by Monica Fincham
Tammie Birdwell
3 years 10 months ago #45056 by Tammie Birdwell
Tell the downstairs resident to get an air purifier & have it running while burning her incense.
3 years 10 months ago #45056 by Tammie Birdwell
PJ Carter
3 years 10 months ago #45057 by PJ Carter
Are they willing to open a window and run a fan or a purifier or something?
3 years 10 months ago #45057 by PJ Carter
Melody Murray
3 years 10 months ago #45058 by Melody Murray
OH be careful when dealing with religious practices. I would tread lightly on that one.
3 years 10 months ago #45058 by Melody Murray
Marilyn Thompson
3 years 10 months ago #45059 by Marilyn Thompson
I would leave that one alone, screams Fair Housing to me.
3 years 10 months ago #45059 by Marilyn Thompson
Susan Schulist Sherfield
3 years 10 months ago #45060 by Susan Schulist Sherfield
Another word of caution: the resident complaining MAY be asking for a reasonable accommodation/modification. My asthma is severely triggered by incense, so be careful in addressing this matter. Make sure you know what the situation is before arriving at a conclusion.
3 years 10 months ago #45060 by Susan Schulist Sherfield
Holly Nash Torres
3 years 10 months ago #45061 by Holly Nash Torres
I would consult your attorney. Sounds like it could be a gray area. In today's climate a lot of people are looking for opportunities to take advantage. It never hurts to ask a question.
3 years 10 months ago #45061 by Holly Nash Torres
Sylvia Walker
3 years 10 months ago #45062 by Sylvia Walker
If your lease prohibits smoke, then it’s covered. If they don’t comply, when their lease is up, don’t renew.
Some tenants will use any excuse to justify doing what they want to.
3 years 10 months ago #45062 by Sylvia Walker
Lori Segura
3 years 10 months ago #45063 by Lori Segura
Resident burning insense isn't allowed to interfere with other residents peaceful enjoyment and if it's for religious reasons they have to find a way to not interfere with others.
3 years 10 months ago #45063 by Lori Segura
Carol Lundy
1 year 5 months ago #640984 by Carol Lundy
I am dealing with the same issue. Haven’t had an asthma attack in 14 years until this neighbor began burning sage 3 months ago. I don’t know what anyone else thinks but if someone tells me something I am doing is bothering them health wise then I would quit because I don’t want to cause someone to be hospitalized or worse because of me. I am tired of people saying they are doing it because of religious reasons. My neighbor is not affiliated with not one religious nothing. She stays up all night burning that stuff and cares nothing about who she hurts. All I can say is if smudging is suppose to help you in a positive way. I have yet to see that happen. It seems more like the devil is in it—as far as the person. When is burning sage a religion, I understand it to be a ritual started by Native Americans. So why is it that so many people starts this and then when it affects others they act like they have all these rights. I feel that it should be stopped because after while someone is going to cause someone great harm and then what. Probably jail time and saying it was for religious reasons is not going to get it if someone dies. Where is the compassion?
1 year 5 months ago #640984 by Carol Lundy
Anonymous
1 year 3 months ago #641469 by Anonymous
But the bottom line is there is a complaint. This sounds like something that irritated me years ago when one lady would complain about she was sick and her husband and others decided to ignore her and she died. So all I can say is don’t let it be said too late—that no one helped when it was in their power to do something. I have asthma now because of my neighbor burning sage and I am here to see if anyone has some good answers for my situation. This answer goes up there with someone who doesn’t care about the peace and enjoyment of another that pays rent as well. Scared of you.
1 year 3 months ago #641469 by Anonymous
Anonymous
1 year 3 months ago #641493 by Anonymous
As a Landlord I can tell you why all rental units should be smoke free. And yes that is candles and incense too. Evidently the ones who complain have not cleaned smoke residue from walls and ceilings. And then usually had to repaint. When something is burned, there is residue in the air and it can build up. And besides the mess, any open flame or ember is a big fire hazard. But renters usually don’t care, because it’s not their property. My lease specifies not only no smoking in the apartment but no burning of incense or candles or anything. Not your property. Buy your own house and soot it up and or burn it down.
1 year 3 months ago #641493 by Anonymous
vie
1 year 3 months ago #641613 by vie
The tenant complaining from incent is totally right. Incent smoke is very disturbing. I have the same issue in my complex. The bad is that the complex is so big, that we cannot figure out where it is coming. Also, many people will use incent to hide marijuana smell.
1 year 3 months ago #641613 by vie