What has been said about getting involved with local and national associations is very true. In this economy, people want to see what you're willing do to before they pay you to do it. Welcome to the free sample world
Being willing to blog and share a lot of my brain for free with people has taken me a LONG way in this industry, but also being willing to embrace platforms like MFI and other online networks has made it so that my reach extended further than I expected. Kudos to you for embracing this community here. They'll take good care of guiding you
Just ask Jonathan Saar about that one
When I was a staffing vendor, I would do a lot of cold calling, but I found a drop in visit to be much more conducive to actually getting the business. I still had to get past the gate keeper, but you'd be surprised how easily their trust can be gained with food. Never forget to bring something for the people who you have to get through to get to the decision maker, or they aren't going to give two thoughts about you. Care about them, remember their names, spend a min checking in on them when you call to get the decision maker and build that relationship, because today's gatekeeper is tomorrow's decision maker. And if they aren't, then they will be the ones who help tomorrow's decision maker decide just who to talk to and deal with as they're getting acclimated.
Best of luck to you, and remember that no isn't the end of the conversation, it's just an invitation to try another method that the prospect likes better.