Pat,
Loved your post. Loved it. Loved this part so much, I want to repeat it:
My recommendation is set proper sales expectations, be well funded, network with other successful vendors who are well connected and most of all UNDERSTAND the basics of property management. Knowing your customers and the issues that are important to them will give you more than "product information" to discuss.
Remember this: RESULTS + RELATIONSHIP = RENEWAL
Setting real expectations is so important. I have many years of experience in this space, and have some amazing personal relationships in this biz. Generally, I love the people I sell to. The term I have for many of my PMC clients is structurally distracted. They have waaaay too much on their plate, and it is quite a challenge to both break through and then keep the sales momentum alive. Most of them really care, but have scant time to listen to an unprepared sales exec.
My advice to salespeople is this: invest time in knowing and understanding your client/prospect. Invest in knowing what software platforms they use, what type of management style the company has, what ancillary products they favor, what type of properties they have and how they make buying decisions. It costs an average vendor company roughly $850 for a new sales call. (add up everything, and you will see this figure is real accurate). At the least, spend the same amount of hours researching your prospect as you would in buying a big-screen tv.
Never ask the stupid, bone-head, and selfish question "how many units do you have?" Get every bit of information in advance. Earn your right to their attention. Think about what you are asking from them (in terms of the time value of money), and treat their time with respect. If you are a fellow vendor, send me a note, and I would be happy to share with you a pre-call preparation form I have developed. This way, you can be serving your client, and not simply serving your own self-interest. Trust me, when you really care, it comes through, and people will respect you as you respect them.
Kind of like the old adage---people do not care how much you know until they know how much you care.