Does saying "Thank You" stifle online conversations?

I know that sounds odd, but it seems like whenever someone thanks someone for chiming in, it seems to end the conversation. The only thing I can imagine is that the "thank you" acts as a capper on the conversation - as if the conversation has run its course and its time to put it to bed. Have you all noticed similar trends?

Brent - That's hilarious, but also true.
For me personally, when i contribute something be it entry on MFI, comment on FB, etc... and someone does the typical 'Thanks for your thoughts, Tara!", I cringe, because the feel is like just the opposite. It seems more courtesy than anything else and definitely does not add to the flow of the feedback line.
I hereby pledge never to say thank you again!

Thanks for your thoughts Tara! LOL!!

Brent,

I believe you are totally correct in your assumption with the words “Thank You” on an online trend. I believe people instead of familiarizing the words as a form of courtesy and appreciation, they see it as an acceptance and fulfillment, which in results stops the additional responses. Good observation!

Sincerely,
Pedro

I had never really thought about it before. But now that you mention it, it does seem almost like using "Thank you for stopping by" as an invitation to leave.

So, is there a better way to express appreciation? Perhaps a direct message?

I really don't know, Jill. It's really hard not to say thanks - even on this thread, I'm using all my willpower not to thank you all! haha

And I also think not replying can lead to a blogger looking indifferent about the comments. For example, when I see a blogger just post a blog and never respond, it can give the impression that they really don't care what others think...

So i think a good practice is to comment when a comment is needed - i.e., a response to an idea, rather than a thank you. And then use your idea of a DM thank you.

I have seen some people say "thank you for responding" and then follow up with a question/comment intended to keep the conversation going. So, that might be another alternative. Maybe something like, "that's an interesting point" is better than just "thank you".

I think it can be a convo capper because sometimes people use "thank you" out of obligation more than really expressing their gratitude. I'm sure this is not the case for everyone, but is for some.

While in college studying PR, a guest speaker at an event once told me that people want to feel appreciated, so to build relationships, let them know specifics about what you liked in an article, blog, or comment they've written.

Someone that does a great job of this is Lisa Petrilli ( www.lisapetrilli.com ). Her responses to comments on her blog are always very sincere and always make you feel part of the conversation.

I don't ever think saying "thank you" is a bad thing (do I sound like my mother yet??), but maybe adding something more will help others feel comfortable in replying.