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1 year 1 week ago #642284
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Office Rules on religious greetings ( Be Blessed, have a blessed day, etc)and wearing clothing stating BLESSED or FAITH, etc.
Been in the business a long time but times seem to have changed. Normally I would say this is a no go, but looking for what others think....
Been in the business a long time but times seem to have changed. Normally I would say this is a no go, but looking for what others think....
1 year 1 week ago #642284
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1 year 1 week ago #642285
by Megan Goodmundson
Replied by Megan Goodmundson on topic Re: Office Rules on religious greetings ( Be Blessed, have a blessed day, etc)
Its harmless. Its nondenominational and not specific to a religion. Blessings are universal.
My bigger question if if graphic clothing is business attire at all, regardless what it says. Does it meet your dress expectations? If business casual is your expectations i personally wouldn’t consider graphic clothing to be business casual.
My bigger question if if graphic clothing is business attire at all, regardless what it says. Does it meet your dress expectations? If business casual is your expectations i personally wouldn’t consider graphic clothing to be business casual.
1 year 1 week ago #642285
by Megan Goodmundson
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1 year 1 week ago #642286
by Guest Insider
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I agree overall it's not appropriate clothing with or without anything on it.
1 year 1 week ago #642286
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Debra Herrington
1 year 1 week ago #642287
by Debra Herrington
Replied by Debra Herrington on topic Re: Office Rules on religious greetings ( Be Blessed, have a blessed day, etc)
I say what I want, I'm not responsible for anyone's "triggers". That said, I usually just say " Have the day you deserve. "
Amy Sexton Horsley
1 year 1 week ago #642288
by Amy Sexton Horsley
Replied by Amy Sexton Horsley on topic Re: Office Rules on religious greetings ( Be Blessed, have a blessed day, etc)
The idea is not to offend other people or make them feel uncomfortable. If you question something it’s best to not move forward with that decision.
1 year 1 week ago #642289
by Mike Powers
Replied by Mike Powers on topic Re: Office Rules on religious greetings ( Be Blessed, have a blessed day, etc)
Amy Sexton Horsley I am offended that you didn't give me a positive blessing and well wishes.
Do you see how absurd this idea becomes ?
While I get the sentiment, I wouldn't say merry Christmas to my Hebrew friends, there are benign phrases that should not offend reasonable people.
Have a blessed day. I wish you the best. Have a good one.....all mean the same thing.
Do you see how absurd this idea becomes ?
While I get the sentiment, I wouldn't say merry Christmas to my Hebrew friends, there are benign phrases that should not offend reasonable people.
Have a blessed day. I wish you the best. Have a good one.....all mean the same thing.
1 year 1 week ago #642289
by Mike Powers
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Samantha Douglas Northcott
1 year 1 week ago #642290
by Samantha Douglas Northcott
Replied by Samantha Douglas Northcott on topic Re: Office Rules on religious greetings ( Be Blessed, have a blessed day, etc)
To be honest, I feel I have as much rights as everyone else. I shouldn't have to give up what I believe in. My whole life I was raised to believe in God, I do believe, that's my right. I do not push it on anyone. I hope you all have a blessed day and a Merry Christmas, to who believe, to everyone else have a great day and a Happy Holiday
1 year 1 week ago #642291
by Michelle Ross
Replied by Michelle Ross on topic Re: Office Rules on religious greetings ( Be Blessed, have a blessed day, etc)
Generally politics and religion are a no go.
Had a company get in trouble for having a cross in the office.
Had a company get in trouble for having a cross in the office.
1 year 1 week ago #642291
by Michelle Ross
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Adrianne Luper
1 year 1 week ago #642292
by Adrianne Luper
Replied by Adrianne Luper on topic Re: Office Rules on religious greetings ( Be Blessed, have a blessed day, etc)
IMO that is a gray area. Some might interpret it as religious. Probably best to avoid it altogether.
Brooke Nuber-Soldate
1 year 1 week ago #642293
by Brooke Nuber-Soldate
Replied by Brooke Nuber-Soldate on topic Re: Office Rules on religious greetings ( Be Blessed, have a blessed day, etc)
"Blessed" is less religiously attached than "faith"
"Stay blessed" is sort of used as slang unrelated to faith nowadays. That being said, if it's gray, stay away at work.
"Happy December" it is!
"Stay blessed" is sort of used as slang unrelated to faith nowadays. That being said, if it's gray, stay away at work.
"Happy December" it is!
Nichole Gautreau
1 year 1 week ago #642294
by Nichole Gautreau
Replied by Nichole Gautreau on topic Re: Office Rules on religious greetings ( Be Blessed, have a blessed day, etc)
The definition of blessed is…
divinely or happily favored; fortunate to have, do, or experience something: often used in a lighthearted way or to avoid sounding boastful: We've been blessed with excellent health
Nothing religious about it.
But I do agree with another commenter about graphic shirts, is it really business attire?
divinely or happily favored; fortunate to have, do, or experience something: often used in a lighthearted way or to avoid sounding boastful: We've been blessed with excellent health
Nothing religious about it.
But I do agree with another commenter about graphic shirts, is it really business attire?
1 year 1 week ago #642295
by John cox
Replied by John cox on topic Re: Office Rules on religious greetings ( Be Blessed, have a blessed day, etc)
Wow. Every time I read something like this I am reminded of how messed up our world has become. Everyone should have a right to their own religion and opinions. If someone gets offended that should be a them problem.
Danielle Stoll
1 year 1 week ago #642296
by Danielle Stoll
Replied by Danielle Stoll on topic Re: Office Rules on religious greetings ( Be Blessed, have a blessed day, etc)
Better safe than sorry
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1 year 1 week ago #642297
by Brittany Stroud
Replied by Brittany Stroud on topic Re: Office Rules on religious greetings ( Be Blessed, have a blessed day, etc)
No words or letters on clothing at work except approved logo wear. General greetings approved only, but use best judgment. Agree with Megan, blessings are universal!
1 year 1 week ago #642297
by Brittany Stroud
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1 year 1 week ago #642298
by Susanne Chandler
Replied by Susanne Chandler on topic Re: Office Rules on religious greetings ( Be Blessed, have a blessed day, etc)
I keep seeing “We need to not be offended”
Honey, it ain’t us. It’s those friggin lawsuits.
You can’t have manners or say something without the threat of a FH case.
PS. I don’t think grown, professional people should wear shirts with writing on them to the office ?♀️
Honey, it ain’t us. It’s those friggin lawsuits.
You can’t have manners or say something without the threat of a FH case.
PS. I don’t think grown, professional people should wear shirts with writing on them to the office ?♀️
1 year 1 week ago #642298
by Susanne Chandler
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1 year 1 week ago #642299
by Brooke Kibler
Replied by Brooke Kibler on topic Re: Office Rules on religious greetings ( Be Blessed, have a blessed day, etc)
When I read this post I’m reminded that not all offices require a business casual or business professional dress code. I’ve never worked in an office where it was appropriate for me to have writing on my shirt.
I’ve also never heard anyone have an issue with “have a blessed day”. I feel like usually this issue comes in when it’s “merry Christmas vs happy holidays”.
I’ve also never heard anyone have an issue with “have a blessed day”. I feel like usually this issue comes in when it’s “merry Christmas vs happy holidays”.
1 year 1 week ago #642299
by Brooke Kibler
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1 year 1 week ago #642300
by Christi Anderson
Replied by Christi Anderson on topic Re: Office Rules on religious greetings ( Be Blessed, have a blessed day, etc)
My company has no problem with "Merry Christmas" or any other generally acceptable greeting for any holiday. For as much as every company virtue-signals something, I'm glad the absurdity of fretting over a largely worldwide recognized holiday greeting is not of them.
1 year 1 week ago #642300
by Christi Anderson
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Christina Green
1 year 1 week ago #642301
by Christina Green
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Vennessa Luvmylife Jones
1 year 1 week ago #642302
by Vennessa Luvmylife Jones
Replied by Vennessa Luvmylife Jones on topic Re: Office Rules on religious greetings ( Be Blessed, have a blessed day, etc)
Christianity is offensive to a number of ppl for a number of reasons. I'd avoid any religion, or political references. We don't discuss these topics with staff or residents PERIOD
Bridgett Francis
1 year 3 days ago #642348
by Bridgett Francis
Replied by Bridgett Francis on topic Office Rules on religious greetings ( Be Blessed, have a blessed day, etc)
If you can’t wish someone a blessed day, then the world has gone to hell.
1 year 3 days ago #642349
by John Fecile
Replied by John Fecile on topic Office Rules on religious greetings ( Be Blessed, have a blessed day, etc)
Classic no win, you will always offend someone with your choice. Be true to you. Be respectful.
And don't wear clothing with slogans/sayings. Branded is okay. Be Professional.
And don't wear clothing with slogans/sayings. Branded is okay. Be Professional.
1 year 3 days ago #642349
by John Fecile
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Laura A Bruyere
1 year 3 days ago #642350
by Laura A Bruyere
Replied by Laura A Bruyere on topic Office Rules on religious greetings ( Be Blessed, have a blessed day, etc)
Wow, so many good comments. With the graphic clothing being brought up, what about religious jewelry? Cross necklaces, jewelry with religious symbols or wording? Thoughts, policies?? Just asking to get general input on what's acceptable out there, thank you!