As a management company executive I’ve noticed that employees have become more and more self entitled

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2 years 4 months ago #60870 by Group Member
Curious to see peoples thoughts here! As a management company executive I’ve noticed that more and more employees (more so on-site office and maintenance) have become more and more self entitled over the last year. They are wanting to do the bare minimum and expect to be catered to hand and foot! I see a ton of posts on here about what are companies doing for their team members to keep them engaged, but at what point does it go back to the basics of the team members doing their job and not always having their hand out for more! I feel we aren’t coaching, counseling and holding our employees accountable due to the fear of having the position open for months but I’m getting to the point that I’d almost rather the position be open bc nothing is getting accomplished with the team member as it is, so we would at least be saving salary and have a legit excuse for stuff not getting done. Any other leadership feeling the same way?
2 years 4 months ago #60870 by Group Member
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2 years 4 months ago #60871 by Sherry Tompkins
I am a Senior Business Manager and I agree with you. Of course I believe in treating people the way I expect to be treated. But the amount of handholding and coddling that is happening is ridiculous! What happened to all of the people with a good work ethic and integrity? But I have a feeling the tide is about to change.
2 years 4 months ago #60871 by Sherry Tompkins
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Tammee Hindman
2 years 4 months ago #60872 by Tammee Hindman
Sherry Tompkins I am right here. Property sold after 10 years there and looking for a new spot. High integrity, always looking for ways to save ownership money or ways to raise their income. Got a spot in Vancouver WA or Portland Ore?
2 years 4 months ago #60872 by Tammee Hindman
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Tawana Rowghani
2 years 4 months ago #60873 by Tawana Rowghani
Yes! I had to change the way I hired. I went out to places like Starbucks, chic fil a, and other service driven companies and recruit. I was always hiring for attitude and train for skills type of person. Our pay plus commission, and work hours always appealed to them! They came on board with great sales experience in person and over the phone, and great attitudes! With all the training they got from corporate covered most of the important things and the lease/addendums. Let them shadow everyone and then shadow them! Worked out very well for me and no attitudes that sometimes come when hiring people who already should have left the industry because of frustration.
2 years 4 months ago #60873 by Tawana Rowghani
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Andy Meador
2 years 4 months ago #60874 by Andy Meador
2 years 4 months ago #60874 by Andy Meador
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Nathalie Santiago
2 years 4 months ago #60875 by Nathalie Santiago
Tawana Rowghani I have always said that I can teach policies and computer skills but I can’t teach attitude and natural charisma
2 years 4 months ago #60875 by Nathalie Santiago
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2 years 4 months ago #60876 by Jonathan Cheville
We saw that tremendous growth was coming a decade ago, and we didn't adequately prepare for it. We rewarded our top performers with more and more work, until they broke or fled. Maintenance wages remained relatively flat until just recently, and they eventually realized that they could make significantly more money in other trades utilizing skills they already have and without having to be on call. Simply put: we are reaping what we have sown. Recognizing the problem for what it is is half way to solving it
2 years 4 months ago #60876 by Jonathan Cheville
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Catherine Hutchins-Behringer
2 years 4 months ago #60877 by Catherine Hutchins-Behringer
I think as an industry we are not changing quick enough to align with the new generations coming into our entry level positions. I don’t have all the answers as to what that looks like, but we are not doing a good job in determining what motivates them or what is important to them vs being stuck in our same old ways.
2 years 4 months ago #60877 by Catherine Hutchins-Behringer
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Vicki Hurley
2 years 4 months ago #60878 by Vicki Hurley
I’m a PM. I work for a small company that doesn’t pay the best ( it’s gotten better) , does not have health insurance ( but will reimburse you up to $300 month) and has decent pto/holidays. What is offered is an amazing boss that listens to you and your suggestions / concerns and truly cares about his employees. When I proved we did not need to be open weekends we closed. When I asked to only work M-Th he said ok. He makes me happy and in return I do a great job because it is my work ethic but he also makes me want to. Unfortunately I think the younger generation coming into the workforce thinks very differently and Covid has made some of the good workers lose their work ethic. I’m thankful for my team even though I do a little more hand holding than I use to. I do make sure to make coming to work fun. My philosophy is get the work done first then goof a little if we can. There’s lots of jokes, lunches together talking about life things and leaving early with pay occasionally. I show appreciation but they also know my high expectations. Everything is very organized so there is less stress at work which also helps.
2 years 4 months ago #60878 by Vicki Hurley
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Lisett Burruel-Vazquez
2 years 4 months ago #60879 by Lisett Burruel-Vazquez
2 years 4 months ago #60879 by Lisett Burruel-Vazquez
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2 years 4 months ago #60880 by Diana Romero
Vicki Hurley you make perfect sense and hit the nail right in the head!
2 years 4 months ago #60880 by Diana Romero
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2 years 4 months ago #60881 by CJ Harbin
We’re not becoming more entitled, we are becoming worn out with the same ole same ole , there is no real growth opportunity, no real recognition, most companies look at the maintenance staff as bottom of the barrel when in all reality there wouldn’t be a housing market if it was for the maintenance techs , the 1 per 100 rule is played out , always being on call is played out , pay is played out . Y’all want the techs to do amazing outstanding work , with minimal pay and usually no perks . Most maintenance techs are abandoning the industry to become vendors or go to a 1 trade company with better growth and pay and most times with little on call . The problem isn’t with the employees the problem is with how the industry treats the employees You can literally work 4-10s have a 3 day weekend all the time but the industry chooses not to. Let’s be real this industry is extremely demanding , and usually only the top and the office staff get the big rewards or attaboys, while the maintenance staff get told the shops can’t have ac because y’all don’t want them to get too comfortable, yet will lecture them to death about heat stroke and heat related illness , Most techs can’t afford to live where they work that is another problem in the industry too
👍: Robert Diehl
2 years 4 months ago #60881 by CJ Harbin
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Mike Powers
2 years 4 months ago #60885 by Mike Powers
Group member it is interesting how so few front line people understand division of labor and roles duties responsibilities up and across an organization.
2 years 4 months ago #60885 by Mike Powers
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2 years 4 months ago #60886 by Diana Romero
2 years 4 months ago #60886 by Diana Romero
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Mike Powers
2 years 4 months ago #60887 by Mike Powers
Diana Vasquez Romero all sorts of misguided people are honest. Still misguided.
2 years 4 months ago #60887 by Mike Powers
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Brooke Nuber-Soldate
2 years 4 months ago #60888 by Brooke Nuber-Soldate
The post just before yours on my wall was insightful. I think a lot of us are neglecting the fact the the greater surrounding world is in chaos, most of us are dealing with inflation that is so high raises don't even scratch the surface, every dollar we earn has less value at the moment. Major political upheaval is happening, general unrest with the state of the world. We're asking people to not just deal with all of that, but their wages have less value, their rents are higher, and we want to demand excellence in the midst of chaos. Maybe a little slack isn't entitlement, maybe it's just regular people trying to survive the current hellscape and maintain a semblance of normalcy and maybe it's not just work tapping/burning people out. The world is placing more demand than it used to so people are asking work to help make up for the life being affected. We're in a situation when life is making a lot more demands on work life balance and people are asking for the work part to help balance things. The asks are bigger, because the demands are too - and they may not be YOUR demands causing it, but outside forces you can't control.
2 years 4 months ago #60888 by Brooke Nuber-Soldate
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2 years 4 months ago #60889 by Brenda Davis
What I see is our industry continues to pay less than the commercial industry which makes zero sense. Companies hire a 50K a year manager and expect miracles. This industry is 80% more stressful than the commercial side. Also the other employees are paid no more than Home Depot and in some cases McDonald’s. To hire good experienced employees they need to pay them as such. There is no incentive for them to work harder because they know they can step out that door and make the same! They are getting the work that they are paying for.
2 years 4 months ago #60889 by Brenda Davis
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2 years 4 months ago #60890 by Diana Romero
Brenda Summers Davis The positions that pay less also offer $100 or more per lease to incentivize you to work harder. Asst. managers also are offered a bonus structure in most cases. If you are not happy with the salary you should not have accepted the job that now you sit at barely performing!
2 years 4 months ago #60890 by Diana Romero
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Debbie Malloy DiBernardo
2 years 4 months ago #60891 by Debbie Malloy DiBernardo
Wouldn’t an easy fix to all of this is by letting your employees have profit share? It worked for United Airlines when moral was low amongst flight attendants years ago.
2 years 4 months ago #60891 by Debbie Malloy DiBernardo
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2 years 4 months ago #60892 by Group member
Debbie Malloy DiBernardo we already do
2 years 4 months ago #60892 by Group member
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ClarkLeybbaa Stephaniee
2 years 4 months ago #60893 by ClarkLeybbaa Stephaniee
This post makes me sad ! Perfect example of how on-site and upper management are working in 2 different worlds . I understand your thoughts but after working onsite for years with previous management companies feeling this way Im so grateful to work for my company. 
2 years 4 months ago #60893 by ClarkLeybbaa Stephaniee
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Nathalie Santiago
2 years 4 months ago #60894 by Nathalie Santiago
ClarkLeybbaa Stephaniee Same! It’s amazing how life changing it is to work for the right company
2 years 4 months ago #60894 by Nathalie Santiago
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ClarkLeybbaa Stephaniee
2 years 4 months ago #60895 by ClarkLeybbaa Stephaniee
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2 years 4 months ago #60896 by Jennifer Carter
Suggestion, go to a company like Swift Bunny Jen Piccotti can help and survey them and don’t just read the results to read them change and listen to your employees
2 years 4 months ago #60896 by Jennifer Carter
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2 years 4 months ago #60897 by Jen Piccotti
Jennifer Carter Thank you for the shout out! I totally understand the frustration many leaders are feeling. This is why I find it so valuable to explore employee feedback and discover the ‘why’ behind employees’ attitudes and behavior. The biggest red flag we’re seeing right now is the lack of a true onboarding process for new hires and not being given the time to complete training. People get frustrated when they don’t understand what they’re supposed to do. That frustration can sometimes look like apathy or entitlement. We’re happy to help understand what your employees need in order to do their best work!
2 years 4 months ago #60897 by Jen Piccotti
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2 years 4 months ago #60898 by Jennifer Carter
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2 years 4 months ago #60899 by Diana Romero
I try to work with everyone and work hard to keep them motivated and I give them achievable goals! It is still not enough! I feel like I am the one not equipped to deal with today’s generation and all of the issues presented. Sometimes I feel like I need a psychiatric degree. It is tough!
2 years 4 months ago #60899 by Diana Romero
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Nathalie Santiago
2 years 4 months ago #60900 by Nathalie Santiago
The workload has tripled over the years. As someone mentioned, 1 for every 100 units is antiquated. Especially when there are now 20+ programs and apps to run a property, all promising to be time savers but really aren’t. They’re meant to make reporting easier for executives or to track KPIs. It’s just another thing for the on-site team to add to the never ending to-do list.
2 years 4 months ago #60900 by Nathalie Santiago
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2 years 4 months ago #61041 by Brent Williams
Nathalie, this reminds me of what Virginia Love mentioned a while back about overwhelming our on-site teams: www.multifamilyinsiders.com/multifamily-...ng-our-on-site-teams
2 years 4 months ago #61041 by Brent Williams
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2 years 4 months ago - 2 years 4 months ago #61124 by Steve Schlanger
2 years 4 months ago - 2 years 4 months ago #61124 by Steve Schlanger
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Heather - PM Group
2 years 3 months ago #61133 by Heather - PM Group
This is such a loaded question!

I am a HUGE fan of commission-based pay. That's how I have received the majority of my pay in the last 20+ years, bonus & commission. It teaches you work = pay, not show up = pay.

I've been on both sides of this argument. During Covid I had an entire property team leave one by one to collect unemployment - during the height they could collect $950 per week by not working. Unfortunately, this was a smaller property with only 4 full-time employees. The payroll is based on the revenue collected from the property site and at the time the rents could not support paying higher wages. Maintenance was paid at approximately $16 - $18 per hour, Leasing was roughly $17 + bonus, and the manager was making approximately $52K salary per year. But over 4 months, they all left - who wouldn't want higher wages with no work? The last to leave was the manager and it was out of pure frustration. Alone with roughly 200 units, tried everything to hire someone...anyone to work at the property, but we just couldn't get anyone there. We limped through with using some contract labor and bringing in another manager to oversee the property part-time, but that manager also worked at another property full-time.

That is an excellent example of how we burn out the good managers. The manager that left out of frustration had been at that site for over 3 years. Worked in the industry for about 8 years, and now she makes a little more money but moved to the property management division of a real estate firm where she is MUCH happier. She no longer works in the traditional multi-family industry and it's a shame, she was such a valuable employee. It wasn't the wage that drove her away, it was the lack of support. It was the abandonment and filling her plate so full that she broke. We cant ask our PMs to take on properties that have no staff and no budget. This is where real estate-based PM companies are winning. Their employees are making roughly the same wages but come in ready to work and seem to do so enthusiastically. They are better at using technology to be more efficient. They are not using "seat fillers" so that a property can say we're open 7 days per week. This model needs to go, it's very outdated. Having a manager on-site 7 days per week for 8 hours a day isn't accomplishing anything - it's leading to apathy & turnover.

Part of the answer is in some of the hiring practices. I see jobs listed daily with a $50K salary for Property Managers. In return, the management company wants a 4-year degree, designations galore, a personality test, a video interview, and a ridiculous amount of unnecessary crap just to get through the door. As an industry, if we're asking for all these hoops we better be ready to pay for them and cater to them.

Who is going to work for $50K per year to use their 4-year degree? That math doesn't make sense. All these certifications & designations are crap and expensive and also come out of the employee's pocket. The crazy personality tests we use through the online job boards (Indeed, wize hire, etc) are useless. This signals to the prospective employee that we see you as a herd of cattle channeling through this process, we don't care and just need you to go through this process. Whichever one of you hits the scoring matrix with the closest percentage will be the one we choose. No future employee is answering these items honestly! They are choosing the answer they think the management company wants.

So, before they ever become an employee we are already setting expectations. We (the property management company) don't care and are doing the minimum/easiest process to get you (the new employee) in here to fill a spot. In this regard, hiring has to change. We need to change the bar for entry to get more talented team members.

Using education as the bar has not worked. You get lots of applicants that have degrees, which is great, but this in no way proves they will be a good team members. I argue that the opposite is true. I have found they become more prone to job-hopping. The education & certifications tell them they should make more money. So, anytime a slightly better pay increase comes along the employee and their degree are gone. I'm finding that my heavily degreed employees want to be coddled, that's all they have known. There is a segment entering the workforce that was coddled their entire educational career, they are bringing that to the workplace. In college, they couldn't meet a deadline so they got an extension, if the professor didn't want to grant it they went to the administration. Students have been catered to because organizations didn't want bad press. Better to give in than have to defend your company or organization in the public arena. Students have been taught that they are special & unique, and they should follow their bliss. If things are hard, take a moment. This attitude is ruining the workforce.

(My moment is that deep breath I take while on the phone to keep from saying all the stuff that I really want to say. Instead, I take my "moment" and put on my best customer service voice, smile, and explain why we can't have 9 emotional support monkeys in an apartment!)

As Property Management Companies we need to do a better job from the beginning. By this, I mean from the very beginning. When we accept a property into our management portfolio we need to do a better job at communicating with the property owner. These sites cannot operate on bare bones. I know we have a fiduciary responsibility to the owner to make these sites profitable, but management companies need to set reasonable expectations at the beginning. I agree that the 1 per 100 is so outdated. Our customers/residents have changed. This is an "I want it and I want right now" world we all live in. The customer's expectations have changed over the last 2 decades and therefore our on-site personnel has more demands than there were previously. Each customer/resident can now contact a city official, tweet, post something on Facebook, and leave a google review before a manager can even get off the phone or a maintenance tech can grab a key. *** Let that scenario sink in for a moment. *** Before you can even begin resolution, your on-site personnel is dealing with 5 issues, instead of just 1. We need to staff properties based on issues, not on the number of doors.



In the above-mentioned property, we were able to raise wages in 2022 because we were able to raise rents. Did that solve the staffing issue? No, it didn't. Even with much higher wages, we still only have 4 people at the property (actually 3.5 - 3 full time,1 part-time). They need support. Maintenance doesn't want to be on-call 24/7. This has always been an issue and needs to be solved. We are using a 3rd party at a couple of sites for evening calls, and it is a little cheaper & very reliable, but I'm not sure all of our sites could afford this. Our managers are still working 50+ hours per week, most work 6 days. We need to stop talented people from burning out.

Also, I say this AGAIN - the on-site 7 days per week model needs to go away. Having seat fillers just so we can say the office is open 7 days per week leads to apathy and adds to the turnover.

1. Change hiring practices. Remove barriers to get a better pool of applicants. Let's get talented people and train them - CONSTANTLY!
2. Keep our talented workers. Train constantly, not the boring once-a-year Fair Housing class.
3. Empower your Property Managers (really empower them)
4. Keep maintenance happy (they need supplies, and reasonable working expectations. Remove the 24-hour on-call, that needs to be a separate position that is paid for.)
5. Remove the "Middle Fat" - Change the structure of your property management company*
6. Be clear with expectations (When I took over as a Regional, I found that some of the on-site personnel didn't have any clear direction or instructions, they didn't know)
7. Higher Wages (If we ask them to do everything and be there constantly, we need to pay them for everything)


*I could write a book on "middle fat" in property management companies. Almost all your problems, both financial & employee-related, can be solved by removing a lot of the structure within your PM company. The real reason a lot of your on-site personnel are stressed, overworked, and want to do as little as possible lies in the next level up. Most companies have VPs on top of VPs, then there's a VP for every division, VPs for every region, then managers over each segment within the region, then Regional managers. It's all too much. This goes for me as well. I worked for a large PM Company as a regional with several properties. My job paid very well, had a car or the option to use my own with a reimbursement, hotel stays, and a per diem. The traveling was rough, but I stayed with it because I was well-compensated and enjoyed the work. I got a bonus for meeting the budget and another bonus for outperforming. Do you know who actually accomplished this? The on-site staff. Do you know who got rewarded? Me. Trust me the on-site staff knows if they work harder, solve problems, and save money - there's no real benefit for them. I reap the reward for their hard work.

Removing the middle layer of fat frees up a ton of capital.

Instead of paying more wages for no reason, I've used other tools to get more work out of my employees. Tie their wages to things they can control. It puts their earning power in their hands. I've had success with using a reward program for the maintenance staff for having work orders with no callbacks. Maintenance has an incentive to do the job correctly the first time. My current managers stay longer because I used to be one. I know it's hard. We've had success using a percentage model instead of a flat rate. (CAN NOT do this in all states) Their compensation is tied to the income of the property. So when the property does better their paycheck is better. I have happy property owners and happy employees.
I'm not a fan of paying leasing agents bonuses to lease. It's their job, it's right in the title. Especially when they are not doing or paying for the marketing. I do pay for retention. It costs less to keep a resident rather than get a new one. Renewals always pay more than a new lease.

Sorry for the long tirade, but the whole model needs to be re-worked. From the top to the bottom.
2 years 3 months ago #61133 by Heather - PM Group
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Toni Baker
2 years 3 months ago #61197 by Toni Baker
I had to leave the industry when my twins were born. Of course, I aged. As long as a property management company wants someone who is aesthetically appropriate as well as the "appropriate age", they are missing out ten-fold. Maintenance deserves as much or sometimes more than a manager, but when you hire a child, you get childlike attitudes, I know I have twins in College, amazing what they learn (or don't). So if you have any properties in Ohio, look me up! I have a great work ethic, just not great opportunities.
2 years 3 months ago #61197 by Toni Baker