As you know, I'm a big fan of appreciating the magic in everyday life. It's easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of modern life, but there are always moments when we can pause and take stock of what we have--and how lucky we are.
I'm sure you've heard me say this before: "You don't need more stuff; you just need more appreciation." And I mean it! The more time and energy we spend on appreciating our lives as they are right now, the...As you know, I'm a big fan of appreciating the magic in everyday life. It's easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of modern life, but there are always moments when we can pause and take stock of what we have--and how lucky we are.
I'm sure you've heard me say this before: "You don't need more stuff; you just need more appreciation." And I mean it! The more time and energy we spend on appreciating our lives as they are right now, the happier we'll be overall--and that has nothing at all to do with having more money or better things than anyone else (though those things certainly help).
The Benefits of Appreciating the Little Things
-Improved mental and physical health
-Increased sense of gratitude and satisfaction
-Greater sense of contentment
Creating Opportunities for Appreciation
-To create opportunities for appreciation, you can:
---Find beauty in everyday moments. This may seem like a simple task, but it's not always easy to see the magic in what we experience every day. One way to do this is by noticing all of the colors around you and appreciating them--the red of your tomato soup or the blue of your friend's eyes. Take time each day to appreciate something new!
---Set aside time specifically for appreciation. You might want to take 10 minutes before bedtime each night so that you can think about what went well during your day and express gratitude for those things with writing or meditation (more on these methods below). Or perhaps setting aside one hour on Sunday afternoons would work better for you--either way is fine as long as it works into your schedule!
Cultivating an Attitude of Gratitude
-Practice mindfulness and presence. Mindfulness is the practice of being in the moment, without judgment or attachment to past or future events. It can be as simple as focusing on your breathing for 5 minutes each day, or taking a walk through nature with no distractions (no music, phone, etc.).
-Create positive affirmations. Affirmations are statements that you say aloud to yourself with intention and belief in order to change your thoughts about yourself or your life situation. They should be stated positively so that they reinforce what you want rather than what you don't want (e.g., instead of saying "I am not afraid," try saying "I am brave". Write down these statements on index cards and carry them around with you throughout the day so that they are always available when needed!
-Make time for self-care every day! This could include anything from getting enough sleep at night; eating nutritious meals; exercising regularly; scheduling time off work/school; spending quality time with friends & family members who support us unconditionally no matter what happens...the list goes on!
Making Time to Reflect
-Taking time to reflect on your achievements is a great way to appreciate the magic in everyday life. You might want to do this daily or weekly, depending on how much you have going on and how much time you can set aside for yourself. It's also helpful if you have someone who will remind you of what has happened since the last time they saw or spoke with you.
This exercise can be as simple as writing down everything that comes to mind about what has happened since the last time they saw or spoke with you (if possible). The key here is not so much what was done but rather how it makes them feel when thinking about all those things together: proud, grateful, excited...
Finding Balance in Life
-Manage stress and anxiety. If you're feeling stressed or anxious, it can be hard to find the time for yourself. But taking care of yourself is important and will help you feel better in the long run. Try these tips:
-Prioritize your needs. Make sure that self-care gets on the top of your list when making decisions about how to spend your time--and don't let anyone tell you otherwise! If someone wants something from you, but it means sacrificing some of your own well-being, politely decline their request until they understand why this matters so much to YOU (and maybe even offer them some suggestions). And if someone tries telling me what I should do with MY LIFE? Well then they're just gonna have themselves a nice little sit down while I go take care of myself first because no one else is going anywhere until then anyway...
Connecting with Others
-It's easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life, but it's important to take a step back and appreciate the magic that surrounds us every day. One way to do this is by connecting with others.
Connecting with others can be as simple as spending quality time with family or friends, sharing experiences with others and building meaningful relationships. This can be done through social media platforms like Facebook or Instagram where people are able to share their lives with each other on a daily basis. The thing about social media though is that sometimes it can create an illusion of what life is really like for someone else because they only show one side of themselves (the good times).
Exploring Nature
-Go outside and explore!
-Appreciate the beauty of nature.
-Connect with the environment around you.
Making Time for Fun
It's easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life, but it's important to take time for fun. It can be as simple as playing a game with your kids or taking a walk through your neighborhood park.
Taking time out of our busy schedules is crucial for our mental health, so make sure you're doing what makes you happy!
Conclusion
-What I've learned from this experience is that it's important to recognize the magic in everyday life, and that you can create opportunities for appreciation by looking at things differently. The key is finding balance in your life: if you're always worrying about what could go wrong, or focusing on how much work needs to get done, then it may be difficult for you find time for appreciation. But if instead of worrying about these things all the time--and even though I still do sometimes!--I remind myself that there are other parts of my life where I'm happy and contented with my progress (like my health), then I'll feel better overall because those positive emotions outweigh any negative thoughts or feelings.
Here are some books on finding the magic in everyday life and appreciating what we have:
1. "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle
2. "The Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho
3. "Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear" by Elizabeth Gilbert
4. "The Book of Awakening" by Mark Nepo
5. "A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose" by Eckhart Tolle
6. "The Art of Possibility" by Rosamund Stone Zander and Benjamin Zander
7. "The Little Book of Gratitude: Create a Life of Happiness and Wellbeing by Giving Thanks" by Dr. Robert A. Emmons
8. "The Miracle Morning: The Not-So-Obvious Secret Guaranteed to Transform Your Life (Before 8AM)" by Hal Elrod
9. "The Happiness Project: Or, Why I Spent a Year Trying to Sing in the Morning, Clean My Closets, Fight Right, Read Aristotle, and Generally Have More Fun" by Gretchen Rubin
10. "The Secret" by Rhonda Byrne
These books offer different perspectives on finding the magic in everyday life and appreciating what we have. Whether you're looking for practical tips or philosophical musings, there's something for everyone in this list.
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Thanks for posting this and for the reminders and insight! I subscribe to this mindset as well and always looking for new reminders and elaborations.
May I add a book to your list , “how full is your bucket” is a great book for those of us in MF (really for everyone).